Friday, September 26, 2008

BYouself

The only you can always trust in, is yourself.
The only you can always lean on, is yourself.
The only make you stronger, is yourself.
And the only can destroy you by the fastest way, is yourself.

So, you have to deal with yourself anytime, anywhere. There's nothing wrong and nothing right in this world. Just listen to yourself. What he say right, it's right.

Life, there will be good times, bad times and some very very bad times. Just stay with yourself and get over it. Blaming people does not solve any problem. Blamning yourself is even worse. When you make thing wrong, it's already wrong. Accept it, and move on. Let people see you smiling, and only cry to yourself. He's the only truly listening.

Since life is not a function. Your input may not always return an expected result. Just accept it. And make your next move. Since you give up, stop moving. You die.

You have to find an ultimate reason to live, know how to deal with yourself, how to motivate yourself, it will keep you alive. Since you are always OK on your own, you wont have to depend on anyone, sooner or later they will have to depend on you. But it doesnt matter. What really matters is you can be on your own. It's your ultimate freedom.

"My philosophy, in essence, is the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own
happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his
noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute."
Ayn Rand




Another doomy day by the forest

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I hope it's not an intrusion if I put some comments over here =)

More or less, I agree with the content of this entry, as my own way of life is almost the same, ever since. However, I beg to differ at some points:

It's not that life is not a function, but it's not a deterministic function. Or more exactly, life is chaotic [and chaos is still different from randomness]. You can say that the dimensionality of the input space is almost infinite so that you can never predict what will happen next, and hence, whether you're right or wrong at the moment. [Remember the Butterfly Effect =) ]

So I agree that one should not blame him/herself or others for all the faults, but simply keep learning and trying his/her best.

Anonymous said...

And well, I came across Ayn Rand and her philosophy of Objectivism years ago. I did ponder upon the cited paragraph too. Same response, though. I agree and do not agree with her statement.

The moral purpose of one's life is not necessarily his/her happiness. It's somewhat much more complicated. It's a whole lot of matters which one comes to value in his/her life. If the purpose is solely one's own happiness, we can never explain sacrifice. And I don't mean physical sacrifice. How can one person sacrifice his/her own happiness for another person's happiness? It is an interesting and paradoxical line of thought that the very action of diminishing one's own happiness elevates that same happiness. So well, I think, the purpose is somewhat much more complicated than just the word "happiness" itself.

Oh, did I say this? Very interesting blog entry =)